Heal from Heartbreak and Emerge Lighter, Wiser and Juiced for Your Future!

Conscious Uncoupling is a fast, effective 5-Step Process to help you break up better. If you are considering separation or divorce, book a free discovery session with Master Coach Jeanne Byrd.

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 Sr. Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coach Phoenix, AZ

Jeanne Byrd is a Sr. Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coach practicing in the greater Phoenix, Arizona area. Trained by program creator Katherine Woodward Thomas, Jeanne has many years of experience helping couples consciously uncouple, and sometimes, consciously re-couple.

Jeanne is available to work with clients from all parts of the world, virtually through Skype, Zoom and/or the phone. She also sees Conscious Uncoupling clients locally at her Phoenix, AZ Office.

For a FREE 20-minute Discovery Session click the button below.

Located in Surprise Arizona and serving Phoenix, Scottsdale, Gilbert, Chandler, Paradise Valley, Mesa, Tempe, Glendale, Cave Creek, Carefree, Litchfield Park, Peoria, and Sun City West.

Breakups can be serious business.  Healing takes time, but you don’t have to waste precious years of your life numbed out, or thousands of dollars in therapy trying to patch yourself together.

In just 6 weeks you can begin the process of healing from trauma so that you emerge lighter, wiser and ready for a juicy, liberated life.

That’s a bold assertion, but one I know to be true. I have personally coached dozens of men, women and couples, of all ages and sexual orientations, through big breakups, and together we were able to create conscious uncouplings that allowed them to move forward in life affirming ways.

Still, it is important not to under-estimate the complicated process of relationship rupture. The big, out-of-control emotions and crazy behaviors we display when we are in breakdown can haunt us for years, even decades. We can begin to lose interest in the basics of life, self-care, and social engagement.

The feeling of devastation that can come when someone we loved and trusted betrays us, can bring life to a standstill.

Suddenly all focus is on them and how they hurt us. We feel rage, helplessness, depression or shame; and if there are children involved, they often mirror these same painful dynamics in their own adult relationships.

None of this has to be.

There is a way to end a relationship that leaves you healthy, whole and liberated from trauma, heartbreak and despondency.

Conscious UncouplingTM   5 Steps to Living Happily Even After

If you are currently in the process of a breakup, or have an unhealed trauma over a previous break-up, the revolutionary 5-Step Conscious Uncoupling ProgramTM is a fast, effective tool to help you navigate this challenging time.

Developed by Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and New York Times Bestselling Author of Conscious Uncoupling, Katherine Woodward Thomas, the course is a complete solution for navigating relationship closure.

Conscious UncouplingTM is a groundbreaking 5-Step Program where you learn how to:


  • Release and transform the hurt, anger and resentment you feel during relationship breakdown.
  • Master the 3 keys you must know in order to step out of heartbreak.
  • Bring your relationship to a healthy sense of closure so that you leave feeling whole, empowered and free to move on and recreate your life.
  • Stop engaging in behaviors that dishonor you or teach others to be selfish and narcissistic.
  • Liberate yourself forever from the patterns that co-created your painful experience.
  • Step into your new life with a powerful sense of self-worth that you wear elegantly, take with you everywhere, and keep no matter who you meet.
  • Open your heart to lightness and possibility so that you are ready for new love whenever it arrives.

"Time does not heal all wounds. You do."

Katherine Woodward Thomas | N.Y. Times Bestselling Author

Jeanne Interviews Katherine

Get all the tea on how the Conscious Uncoupling method works in this intimate and tender conversation with Jeanne Byrd and the creator of the program, Katherine Woodward Thomas.

A High Profile Conscious Uncoupling

Katherine’s 5-Step Conscious Uncoupling process skyrocketed to international attention when actress Gwyneth Paltrow and her former husband, Chris Martin, used her term to announce their divorce. Katherine’s work had influenced this couple to set an intention to breakup in a holistically healthy way, and they were able to consciously and gracefully complete their marriage while keeping their family intact.

Success Stories

I was struggling with recurring bouts of heavy emotional pain related to a breakup that had taken place the year before when I reached out to Jeanne for support and coaching. At the time I felt some hopelessness that I would ever be able to move on from the impact of the breakup. With Jeanne’s expert guidance through the steps of Conscious Uncoupling, I was finally able to free myself from the pain and to begin relating to myself, others and life from the truth of my radiance and equality with all of creation. Now I feel joy and gratitude related to the many blessings in my life, and excitement about the path I am on to magnetize more love, authentic connection and success going forward.
Noelle Davis | Austin, Texas

What exactly is a Conscious Uncoupling?  Is that just fancy new-age speak for divorce?

Although the term does sound rather new age-y, the course is based on solid transformative psychology. The Conscious Uncoupling process is based on the principal that the degree of trauma we experience in a breakup is often related to an original core wound that becomes re-inflamed by the latest wounding.

The reason why it can be so difficult, if not impossible, to heal from a bad breakup is because without properly addressing the original trauma, we are effectively putting a band-aid on a surgical level injury. When you add in the complexity of emotions involved in a close relationship, it can be easy to get engulfed in a sea of hatred, shame, obsession, depression, guilt or fear.

These core wounds create behavioral patterns that we repeatedly engage in. The behaviors are the mechanisms that have been silently fueling the experiences we’ve been having in all of our unhealthy relationships. The key to graduating from these painful dynamics is to evolve the patterns that keep us locked in a cycle of pain and disappointment.

Once we isolate and transform the pattern, we can step out of our younger-self who experiences life from a disempowered place, and we step into our adult, true self who easily creates life on our terms.

During the coaching process, I’ll help you bridge the gap between those separate selves, by showing you practices and techniques that will quickly get from where you are to where you want to be.

Here’s how it works…

You will receive a copy of the New York Times Bestselling Book “Conscious Uncoupling” and some Reflection Questions to dive deeply into each week’s work. You will prepare for our live, private coaching sessions by reading that week’s chapter and emailing me the answers to your reflection questions.

As we move through the course, you will have access to my undivided attention and care during our sessions, where I support and guide you through this delicate process. You will receive feedback and advice from me that will empower you to fully embody your True Self, which is the ultimate foundation for joy, possibility and emotional freedom.

I will help you not only integrate your progress, I will also provide support should you experience a temporary setback.

This work is transformative in nature and can be a sweet, healing balm to you heart.



Meet Jeanne Byrd.

Jeanne Byrd Romero is a senior certified Calling in “The One” Coach and Facilitator, a senior certified Conscious UncouplingTMCoach, a certified INHC Institute of Integrative Nutrition Coach, and a Senior certified Feminine Power Transformative Coach. She has over 10 years of experience successfully coaching hundreds of men, women and couples about physical and relational health and wellbeing.

A Week-by-Week Overview…

Conscious Uncoupling Coaching: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After

Here’s what we’ll cover during our 6 weeks together:

Week 1: Client Intake + The Principles and Practices of Conscious Uncoupling (90 minutes)

Week 2: Step One: Find Emotional Freedom (60 minutes)

Week 3: Step Two: Reclaim Your Power & Your Life (60 minutes)

Week 4: Step Three: Break the Pattern, Heal Your Heart (60 minutes)

Week 5: Step Four: Become a Love Alchemist (60 minutes)

Week 6: Step Five: Create Your Happy Even After Life (60 minutes)

When you register for coaching, you’ll receive everything you need to take full advantage of the Conscious Uncoupling course along with private one-on-one coaching with me. 

Deeply owning your true value, lovable-ness and worth liberates you from ever having to go through another debilitating breakdown. You can heal from the trauma of a ruptured relationship. You can connect to the part of you that is whole, healthy, powerful and alive and I’d love to show you how to do it.

“My ex and I completed the Conscious Uncoupling Program with compassionate support from Jeanne. I always felt heard, seen and loved. I can give no greater compliment to anyone.

– Deb Miller, Vermont

She brings the most beautiful, loving energy coupled with deep care and warmth to every session. I feel very safe and held within her wise guidance.

– Jen M., Australia

Jeanne can save you years of therapy. I have seen her work miracles with clients in a very short period of time.

– Katherine Woodward Thomas

Is Conscious Uncoupling just for ending romantic relationships?

No! Although the book was written primarily with romantic relationships in mind, psychologists have studied the effects of attachment rupture on the brain and body, and the evidence is clear: the breakdown of any primary attachment has the same devastating impact. In many cases, the sense of loss and grief experienced is similar to the death of a loved one. Happily, you can apply the principles of the Conscious Uncoupling process to any relationship breakdown you may be experiencing, and achieve the same miraculous results.


Frequently Asked Questions

Learn more about the proven Conscious Uncoupling method.

Does this process work for people of all ages and sexual orientations?

Yes.  The process of ending a relationship can be traumatic for anyone no matter what age, gender identity, lifestyle, sexual orientation or form the relationship took.

What if I’m not sure I really want to leave?

Many people who benefit from Conscious Uncoupling coaching are actually in a stage of evaluating whether or not to stay or go. In this way, coaching can be very beneficial to your decision making process because you will get clarity about your current situation and be able to make a sound, conscious decision instead of an emotionally reckless one.

How do sessions take place?

Coaching sessions are conducted over the phone or video conferencing and last 60 minutes.  Our first call includes a detailed intake session and that call will be closer to 90 minutes.

If you are doing the Coaching for Couples program, some sessions will be done together as a couple, and some session will be done separately.


Can you guide us to stay together if we have a change of heart during the Conscious Uncoupling process?

Yes and this outcome is not unusual. Sometimes people do decide to stay together as a result of taking this course. Regardless of whether you decide to separate or get back together, the old relationship was not very healthy or stable so you want to clean up unhealthy ways of relating before embarking on a new adventure together.

How is coaching different from just reading the book?

The book hit the New York Times Bestseller list in the Fall of 2015. And while reading the book alone can be a highly transformative experience, nothing can replace the feeling of safety and comfort you get from having a highly trained coach expertly guide you through the process. It’s similar to self-diagnosing versus seeing a trained medical practitioner. If you’re dealing with a simple cold, chances are you can treat it successfully on your own. Relationship rupture, however, is closer to breaking a bone. It’s best not to try and reset it yourself.

My ex is not interested in working with me toward a conscious completion. Will the course still help me if I do it alone?

Yes. The Conscious Uncoupling process works with or without the participation or support of your ex.  The course is focused on you and your emotional freedom. And while it is great if both parties choose to do it together, the truth is most people do it alone. Conscious breakups are the result of one person taking it on – thankfully this is one instance where you don’t need two to tango.

Success Stories

Jeanne was always so positive and encouraging, even when I experienced set backs in my work. Thanks to her encouragement plus the honesty and wisdom of the book, I felt like I was in good hands. I’m able to move forward from my past with a clearer perspective of how my past has shaped my present. I’ve been able to forgive myself for my mistakes and acknowledge the difficult circumstances of my childhood which colored my experiences as an adult. Jeanne and the CU process helped me dive into painful past experience with a critical eye. I was able to embrace my pain and begin to heal wounds I had buried deep within myself.  After my work with Jeanne, I feel more grounded and with a different perspective on love and my past relationships. I feel hopeful that I’ll create happier and healthier relationships in the future.

Why Happily Even After is a great way to prepare for Happily Ever After…

Many of my clients who come to me for relationship coaching and want to Call in “The One”, are carrying years of baggage and psychological wounds from old breakups. Somehow, through their own grit and determination they figured out how to move forward in life without properly addressing those wounds and are attempting to build a beautiful future on a shaky emotional foundation…

I often recommend we go through the Conscious Uncoupling work first so that they truly (and maybe for the first time ever in their lives) feel light, liberated and unafraid to boldly claim who they are and what they want in their love life.

So if you are visiting this page out of curiosity but are really more interested in attracting a new relationship, I invite you to consider beginning our partnership with Conscious Uncoupling work. It will hold you in good stead as you continue on the path of calling in a delicious, sexy, soulful partner.

Here’s to you,

Praise for Jeanne Byrd Coaching

“During the Calling in “The One” process, Jeanne was able to give me clear insight into complex situations… very quickly.  I appreciated her ability to frequently connect with me — since I live in Europe — and also I appreciated her ability to speak the truth with great joy!  Soon after the completion of the Calling in “The One” process, I met my true love!  Because of the work Jeanne and I did, I am now able to navigate issues, as well as enjoy a profound field of trust, delight and security with my beloved.”

Annina Lucina Martin, Switzerland

“Jeanne is an expert in health and relationships.  Her personal experience transforming her own body with healthy choices and supplements as well as having a happy, healthy marriage make her an extraordinary leader when it comes to coaching men and women to achieve the breakthroughs necessary to have their deepest desires met in love and life!”

Cherry Norris, Dating Coach, Actress, Filmmaker

“After not having been in a relationship for almost 10 years, my work with skillful Jeanne taught me that I  was the obstacle in my search to find my Life Partner. Over the last 6 months, I have (with her loving coaching) been able to truly fall in love with myself. I now feel he is on his way to the authentic me. I am forever grateful to my mentor, Jeanne.”

Michelle W, San Francisco, CA

“Through Jeanne’s skillful and gentle guidance, I have uncovered barriers to love and discovered patterns of belief that have kept me from ever achieving a deep intimacy in relationships. She has shown me that I can meet my Beloved just by being my authentic self, and he will love me for that.”

O’Brian, Lake Shasta CA

“Jeanne built rapport quickly, facilitating a level of trust between us that allowed me to communicate with her in a very authentic and honest way. We were able to move rapidly through any resistance or blocks each session, leaving me in a place of clarity and excitement at all the possibilities that lay ahead.

She brings the most beautiful, loving energy coupled with deep care and warmth to every session.  I feel very safe and held within her wise guidance.”

Jen. M., Australia

“Jeanne is an incredibly effective coach.   Thanks to her coaching I am healing emotional wounds that have been festering since childhood. Despite being 2,000 plus miles apart, I felt safe with Jeanne’s always-present love and firmness”

Tina, Detroit, MI

“Jeanne has a wonderful sense of humor, authentic humility and commitment to the greatest good for the person she is helping.  Her humor has helped me laugh at situations, and at myself, in ways that are not self-negating or self-judging, rather that bring compassion and gentle awareness of my ego.  She helped me to relax my mind and bring fluidity and possibility back into the conversation.”

Yael S., Switzerland

Dear Jeanne,

Words cannot express how much I appreciated your loving, skillful guidance during our sessions together.  I am moving forward with the feeling of optimism, uplift, strength and confidence.  I now know that my deepest yearnings can be achieved and I have everything I need to become the One who will find her One!”

With deep gratitude and much love,


Thank you again, from the bottom of my heart, for your time and your utter commitment to use becoming our truest, deepest, most competent and authentic selves.  It is life changing.



Thank you Jeanne.  I am reminded by your graceful attention.  Feeling witnessed and held in this endeavor together.  I am struggling, floundering and faltering and blessed by my sense of perceived humiliation, by the paralyzingly limitations inherent in this situation and brought to my knees by this unfolding, graced to know what I know is not all there is to know. Thank your for helping me rise, for lifting me through your compassionate choice to be here with us all. You move me.

Thank you,